Meet vanlifers

The apps vanlifers use to meet each other in 2026, compared.

Quick answer

The main apps for meeting other vanlifers in 2026 are RME (a free community app with Meet, events, caravans and a Friends Map), Crossroads (a free, volunteer-run nomad app that needs an invite code), nomatch (nomads nearby, no swiping), Vanderlust and aki (newer iPhone apps for finding travelers nearby), and Nomadtable (city meetups for travelers). Facebook groups, Reddit and Meetup are still where many gatherings are announced. Sēkr, once the best-known option, has closed.

Key points

  • Pick by how you want to meet: browse people nearby, join events, or travel together.
  • RME and Crossroads put events on a map; RME also has caravans you can follow and join.
  • nomatch, Vanderlust and aki are newer apps focused on travelers near you; most are iPhone only.
  • Location privacy differs a lot. Check whether an app shows an exact pin, an area or nothing.
  • Sēkr closed and RVillage closed in 2023; don’t plan around either.

How do the vanlife meetup apps compare?

Apps for meeting other vanlifers and nomads, from each app’s own website or App Store page, checked October 21, 2026. RME publishes this comparison and lists itself in the same format.
AppHow you meet peopleLocation privacyPrice, as listedPlatforms
RMEDiscover travelers nearby in Meet, events on the map with Going and an event chat, caravans you can follow and joinFriends Map with Ghost, Town, Approximate (within 20 miles) or Precise, shared only with mutual friends; event pins can stay hidden until a set timeCore app free; optional Supporter plans and Ember packsAndroid; iPhone (see availability below)
CrossroadsNearby events “from quiet campfires to desert dance parties,” a friend map and upcoming destinationsLocation detail set per friend, or Hidden ModeFree; joining needs a 6-digit invite codeiPhone on the App Store; its site also links to Google Play
nomatchLive map of nearby nomads with “down for” tags; contacts shared only on mutual interestNo in-app chat or swiping; photo and vehicle verificationFree; nomatch+ $6.99/mo, $39.99/yr, or $49.99 lifetimeiPhone and Android
VanderlustNearby traveler matching, a map of spots and events, spot chat, rig profiles and meetupsNot described in detail on its listingFree; Pro $2.99/mo or $22.99/yriPhone
akiFind vanlifers nearby, see who is heading your way (Trip Sync), meetupsNo public exact-location map or exact pinsFree; $4.99/mo or $39.99/yriPhone
NomadtableBrowse and join activities with travelers in a cityNot vanlife-specific; city basedNot shown on its siteiPhone and Android
MeetupLocal vanlife and camping groups with eventsGroups choose where to meetFree to join; Meetup+ is optionalWeb, iPhone, Android

Available on the App Store for iPhone and on Google Play for Android.

Which one should I use?

  • You want to see who is around tonight: a nearby-people app such as RME’s Meet, nomatch, Vanderlust or aki.
  • You want plans, not chats: events and caravans. RME and Crossroads put events on a map; RME adds dated caravan routes with Open, Request or Invite-only joining.
  • You want your friends on a map: RME’s Friends Map or Crossroads’ friend map, both with adjustable location detail.
  • You’re in a city, not a campsite: Nomadtable or Meetup.
  • You want the biggest audience for an announcement: a regional Facebook group or r/vanlife, then put the event in an app so people can find it later.

Many vanlifers use two: one app for the people and one campsite app for where to sleep. A busy app in your region matters more than any feature list, so try the one your friends already use.

How do I meet other vanlifers safely?

  • Meet first at a public place: a trailhead, a coffee shop, a busy campground or an organized gathering.
  • Don’t share your exact campsite with someone you just met. Use an approximate or town-level setting until you know them.
  • Tell a friend where you’re going and when you’ll check in.
  • Use apps that verify accounts and let you block and report. On RME every account verifies a phone number, and each number can be used once.
  • Trust your gut and leave if something feels off. You have wheels.

What does RME do differently?

RME was started by a vanlifer who couldn’t find other vanlifers on his first trip. It puts people, events and places in one app, with privacy controls on every place your location appears.

Meet shows travelers near you in Discover. Follow each other and you can message; “Show me in Discover” is a switch you control, and every profile and conversation can be blocked or reported.

Events on the Roam map can be filtered by Public, Friends, Attending and Mine, with Going, a waitlist and an event chat. Organizers can keep the exact pin hidden until a set time or share it only with people going, and can ask guests to agree to event rules before they join.

Caravans are dated routes other travelers can follow and join. The organizer chooses Open, Request (approve each person) or Invite only (with a code), and can show the route approximately until someone is approved.

Friends Map shares your location only with mutual friends, at the level you pick: Ghost (hidden), Town (your general town), Approximate (a random point within 20 miles) or Precise. Precise can go to all mutual friends or only the friends you choose, for 2 hours, 8 hours, 24 hours or until you turn it off.

Every account verifies a phone number to finish setup, and each number can be used on one account only. Members must be 18 or older.

Roam spots, Trailprint, Events and Friends Map are included with a free RME account. The app shows the current plan details, so check there for anything that is still optional.

Apps to meet other vanlifers

Each app’s description and price come from its own website or App Store page, checked October 2026.

  1. RME

    Best for: People, events, caravans and a Friends Map in one app

    Meet, events with hidden-pin and rules options, caravans and Friends Map; the core app is free.

  2. Crossroads (opens in a new tab)

    Best for: A free, volunteer-run nomad community

    Nearby events and a friend map with per-friend location detail; invite code required.

  3. nomatch (opens in a new tab)

    Best for: Low-pressure introductions without swiping

    Live map of nomads nearby with “down for” tags; contacts exchanged only on mutual interest.

  4. Vanderlust (opens in a new tab)

    Best for: Finding travel buddies near camping spots

    Its listing says “Vanderlust is the one to find who to park with”: matching, spots and events, rig profiles.

  5. aki (opens in a new tab)

    Best for: Seeing who is heading your way

    Trip Sync matches routes and dates; no public feed or exact pins.

  6. Meetup (opens in a new tab)

    Best for: Local groups and recurring meetups

    Free to join groups and RSVP; some organizers charge dues.

Frequently asked questions

What is the best app to meet other vanlifers?

It depends on how you like to meet. For people, events and caravans in one free app, RME. For a volunteer-run community with an invite code, Crossroads. For low-pressure introductions without swiping, nomatch. Many travelers use one of these alongside Facebook groups.

Is there a free app to meet vanlifers?

Yes. RME’s core app is free, Crossroads is free with an invite code, and nomatch, Vanderlust and aki are free to download with optional paid tiers.

What replaced Sēkr for meeting people?

Sēkr has closed. Former users have moved to community apps such as RME, Crossroads and nomatch, and to Facebook groups and Meetup for gatherings.

Do these apps show my exact location?

It varies. RME’s Friends Map only shares with mutual friends at the level you choose, including Ghost and Town. Crossroads lets you set detail per friend. aki says it has no public exact-location map. Check each app’s settings before you go.

Are vanlife meetup apps dating apps?

Most present themselves as community apps. nomatch says it is friendship-first with dating as an opt-in. Read each app’s description to see how it is meant to be used.

Sources

Sources and further reading are listed below. Research dates and any illustrative assumptions are identified in the article. Tell us at support@roammeetexplore.com if something has changed.

Disclosure: RME publishes this page. We make RME. Other apps, events and tours mentioned are run by their respective organizations. Check their current details before making plans.

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